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Summary and Outlook

15 Nov

In the last days I met a lot of my friends and family in Germany. I showed pictures and videos, I even cooked Swahili dishes, was asked 100 questions, explained how Kenya works, talked, talked, talked… Finally found a good reply for “Na, wie war Kenia?”

Now it is time to write the summary of my 17 weeks in Kenya. Of course it is impossible to put it into words. Let me at least try. I Will use some of last days´ questions as structure.

Did you enjoy it?

Haha. OF COURSE I DID! Yes, the security situation might be worse than here. Yes, the living standard is not as high. Yes, it is muddy in the slums and not always enjoyable to be the only white person around. No, there ain´t running water all days.

And yes, I met incredibly friendly people and had nice food. I saw beautiful landscapes, experienced nature I only knew from books. I lived as a part of a 7-head-family. I talked about things I didn´t know they were worth talking about. I had incredible fun in clubs, at parties and with my friends.

What were the results of your efforts at work?

Let me start with the hard facts:

  • We raised funds for the primary school to buy school books, build a new classroom, buy kitchen equipment, provide lunch five times and go on a school excursion to a nearby forest reserve.
  • 20 discussion classes for class 9 to 11.
  • 10 discussion forums for girls from 15-20.
  • We held an HIV/AIDS day for 40 adults.
  • Proposal and budget for the beauty contest
  • One newspaper article about the youth group

But what is more important for me is to challenge people to think differently. Just by talking to them on the street or in the slums. But it´s pretty much impossible to measure the impact I had on people´s minds… When I left so many people told me they would miss my face, the conversations with me and the inspiration I gave them. So I just hope that in half a year a lot of lives have changed, at least kidogo.

And what did you learn for yourself?

Of course I gained working experience in a totally new field like counselling, proposal writing and health education. For sure my english improved. I “relearned” to work with less IT-support. I improved my soft skills such as communication skills, delegation, public speaking and flexibility.  And last but not least working in a different physical environment tought me a lot about my body.

I was reminded again not to take things for granted. Our lifestyle is “normal”, but just for us. That holds true for us and for everybody else in the world as well.

How was it to come back?

Wow…. This is what I call a reintegration shock. Loads of positive and negative impressions: super speedy internet, hot water from the tab, doing 140 on the highway without humps and bumps, a shop assistant that could actually help me. Then the cold and grey weather and the noisy planes from Frankfurt International Airport just above my head. Welcome back to Rhein-Main-Region!

Seeing 5 metres of coke in the shelves in the Supermarket, having a huge and FULL fridge at home, visiting flats of 80 m² for just one person, sitting on a leather couch, eating Tortilla chips with Salsa dip, using fork and knife for dinner. That was normal 4 months ago and is not so normal anymore.

Do I want to go back one day?

For sure! I hope to return for a longer period as soon as I clear university. That should be in May 2009.

Aaaaha. On the same job?

What I did was not paid which is not sustainable in the long run. Plus I want find a job in Kenya with a fixed job description and in a team, not as a lonely fighter 😉

Ok, Manu, you are crazy… I just can´t understand what Kenya did to you.manu-danach

I got a new haircut yesterday and that´s (as everyone knows ;)) an old symbol of girls to show everybody that they want to start something new.

That is all I can say now. Looking for a flat, a diploma thesis, a job, a position in Kenya.

The next six months will bring a lot of new things. I will keep you updated.

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Reintegration light – Trip to Hungary

13 Nov

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Just after returning to Frankfurt I spend a week in Budapest.

I was trainer on an outgoer preparation seminar for AIESEC Hungary. This definitely helped me to come back to Europe pole pole.

Cool was that Dani was there, an AIESECer from Nairobi. So we talked a lot… e. g. about the shock of going from Kenya to Europe;)

I had 4 super cool co-facis with family backgrounds from New-Zealand, Namibia, Poland and Romania and working experience in India, Pakistan, Dominican Republic, Turkey, Ethiopia and Hungary.

Thanks for listening to my Kenyan stories and sharing yours!!

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Arrival in Frankfurt

2 Nov

After 4 nights without much sleep I simply slept during both flights. The changing in Kairo was as annoying as last time… queueing a lot, being pushed back and forth by funny tourists. I missed Kenya already, the politeness, the smiling people, the pole-pole-ness.

In Frankfurt then: A lot of unpacking, washing clothes, sorting presents, listening to Kiswahili music. Going to bed early. A golden autumn was waiting for me in Frankfurt, breathing the fresh german air.

Home feels good. First Cheese-Bread (with real chesse and proper bread) in nearly 4 months.

Home feels cold. Fortunately Benja had switched the heating on already.

Home feels clean. No dust on the roads, no mud, no iron sheets.

More later… I need to think a lot before I can really write how I feel.

Goodbye Nairobi!

2 Nov

I had a lot of small goodbyes. After returning from the coast I only had 3 remaining days in Nairobi.

Thursday buying Kenya King in Central, goodbye to the cockroaches at the toilet there… Then I went out with my host sister, Benjamin and his host. Some nice cocktails in Mwendas and on the way home no Matatus followed by big discussions. Kwaheri Matatus 🙂

Friday I took the primary school on a trip to Ngong Hills, amazing experience. For all the kids and even the teachers it was the first time to go there. As soon as we got on the bus, the kids started singing and their excitement was visible all over the faces. So it was a wonderful last day with the kids from Upendo.

Friday evening Benja and me cooked for my host family: “Italian” Risotto and German Kartoffelsuppe. The Cousins and even the Grandparents were there!

Friday night I went to a house party outside Rongai at the edge of the national park again. Laying outside, enjoying the stars, talking a lot. It was kind of saying goodbye to the nature and the country.

Saturday packing my bags, last visit to Massai Market, having the last tea with my host mum. In the evening I invited some friends from the slums for ethiopian food. Of course I had to end my stay in Kenya in a club: dancing in Mwendas, loads of AIESECers were there… Just as we wanted to leave around 1.30, they played Boda Boda, I think the DJ knew I was leaving 😉

Saying goodbye to my family in the middle of the night was kind of hard. I couldn´t put into words what my stay with them meant for me. As soon as I left the house and got on the cab the lights in Donholm went off. It happens like once a week, but my host family and me we took it as a sign…

Sallie, Matthew and Kureshi dropped me at the aiport and helped me with my brandnew Kartoffelsack around my backpack.

Asante sana!! Nitakumiss!